My father is a veteran from WWII. He served in the European theater with a group that did surveying and maps. When I was a kid he never ever talked about the war. Mom said that he never spoke to her about it either. In his old age, he's loosened up a bit. Now he will talk about it if you ask. However, one day after my mom had died he told me some absolutely horrible stories, he finished with a tear in his eye and said, "People really don't understand that war is hell." I thought about the hero's homecoming that awaited the soldiers returning from that war. I thought about all those years that he kept so much pain inside to protect us and protect mom. I told him that I was sorry. I was sorry that he had seen those things and I was sorry that he had had to go in the first place. He relaxed after that. All these years and what he really needed was an apology.
He was just a kid. Thanks, and we're sorry.
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